6 Uncommon Signs To Know You Found The One

The best feeling in the world is falling in love with the person that is destined to be your soulmate.

The best feeling in the world isn't seeing a million dollars in your bank account.

I mean I don't know for sure because I'm not there yet. But all my rich friends on social media say it's over rated, so I believe them.

The best feeling in the world is falling in love with the person that is destined to be your soulmate.

I don't know what it's like to be rich...yet.

But I do know what it's like to fall in love with my perfect match.

And it's a feeling like none other.

It's a feeling that everyone deserves to experience in their lifetime.

Not only does it release what feels like a hidden of reserve of love in the bottom of your heart.

That love oozes out all around you to create joy, peace, and satisfaction in every area of your life.

I'm no murderer...but it's a feeling I would kill for.

And I think you would too.

I think everyone would fight for and cherish this feeling if they truly got a chance to experience it.

But many people are single searching for love, or worse, in a toxic unfulfilling relationship that lacks the love they truly deserve.

So I'm going to take a stroll off the beaten path to share 6 uncommon signs to know you've found the one.

And when I say, uncommon, I mean uncommon.

Let's jump into it.

They tell you when your breath stinks

It seems so silly but it's really hard to tell someone face to face, "hey, you're breath stinks right now, want a gum?"

And you add in the fact that you love this person, and it gets twice as hard.

But that's exactly the value in hearing it.

If your partner tells you you look bummy, your breath stinks, your arms stink, or anything of the likes, they are not afraid to hurt your feelings.

Or maybe they're scared but do it anyway.

Most likely because they love you and want to see you win.

Your true perfect match will say the hard things, because no matter what, they want to see you win.

They've entertained hall passes, threesomes, or other non-traditional relationship ideas.

This one is bound to rile a few people up.

But if you think about it, it makes sense.

No relationship is perfect.

No two people will be perfectly in sync at all times.

The perfect relationship will have to stretch and bend to BE perfect for both parties involved.

If your partner isn't willing to discuss or entertain things that break the status quo, it's only a matter of time before the relationship breaks under pressure.

Everything should be negotiable and discussable.

Life may be black and white but love is the full spread of the rainbow.

They've intentionally broken the law with you.

A true soul mate will be willing to follow you in and out of the fire.

There's no reason to go throwing your life away on unreasonable risks.

But if the moment you make a bad decision, your partner hits the eject button, they're not in it for the long haul.

Don't compromise your values.

But something as simple as breaking the rules and living outside the bounds isn't even a question for the one.

A true ride or die isn't worried, they're happy to be along for the ride.

You guys have broken up before or had a serious fall out.

If you can't go to the deepest depths of darkness, and rise back to the top, you'll never know the limits of your relationship.

Again, no relationship is perfect.

Push will come, and he will shove.

The question is will you guys fall over, or push back.

A relationship that has gone through a serious fallout and come back stronger, will always outlast a relationship built in fantasyland.

The key here is come back stronger.

When you broke up, did you guys grow and learn to better lovers?

Or did you guys get scared and lonely and chose to go back to what you know, even when nothing changed?

Your perfect match will not run, hide, or accept dark times in your relationship.

They will assess, learn, and be emboldened to never let it happen again.

They've seen vids, pics, or stories of you and exes.

This sucks to think about but everyone has a past.

Is your "perfect match" able to live with yours?

Do they live in a fantasy world where you born yesterday, pure, untouched, and unloved?

Or do they accept and understand that your past is an important part of your story and who you are today?

The one will see pictures, vids, and hear stories and it will hurt them to their core.

But they will endure that temporary pain to understand you and better the relationship.

The frauds will run and hide in fantasyland. Only ever choosing to come out when it benefits them.

This isn't the first relationship for either of you.

This one is just pure math.

Statistically speaking, it's highly unlikely the very first person you fall in love with will be your perfect match.

It doesn't mean it's not possible.

It just means it's improbable.

Many of us have so much to learn as lovers that we couldn't be anyone's "one".

So if this is the first relationship for either of you, there will probable be more learning than loving.

And that's just basic math.

Those are some uncommon signs your partner is "the one" for your forever relationship.

But the most important sign, is if you choose to make it a forever relationshi...

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